For Couples

Each of my sessions are tailored to meet the needs and desires of my guests, based on the information you share with me on the intake form and during our consultation.

Here are some examples of the types of sessions I can offer to couples;

Intimacy and Communication coaching; The Art of conscious touch.

Communication is the most important and yet often the most challenging part of any relationship. Our experiences around the words we learn and share can very from person to person. These shades of perception can give rise to misunderstanding and a feeling of being misunderstood. However...

  • With Attention we can learn how to listen to, and honour the wisdom of the body.
  • With Intention It is possible to come back into alignment with the truest of our desires, where we can experience what it means to be 100% in consent within ourselves.
  • With Practice we can learn how to share intimacy from a deep place of truth.

There are many reasons we may go along with a sexual scenario that does not serve us, whether it be societal conditioning,  low self esteem, a feeling of “duty” or “obligation”.  Saying “yes” when the body is saying “no” can lead to unfulfilling sexual relationships, building of resentment and incurring sexual trauma, even within a loving partnership. This is a very deep and personal conversation that your body may be having with you, based on valid past experiences. Through Somatic Sex Education many people have experienced:

  • How to understand the deeply held stories and messages of your body
  • Acceptance of who you are and where you are as being perfect for you at this time and place
  • Expressing yourself authentically, and discovering who you are as an erotic being.  

Using communication, breath, movement and touch, we can start to unravel the stories of the body, finding the joy, ease, and pleasure that is our natural state. Choosing conscious sexuality means learning how to ask for, give, receive, and take your pleasure. This means, between consenting adults… anything is possible! I can help you discover choice, and find your voice.

Massage lessons for Lovers; witness your partner being touched for education and for pleasure, experience a 4 handed Taoist Erotic massage.

Life is full and busy, creating time and space for erotic adventures can be challenging amidst the family’s obligations, and the “to-do” lists. I create the sacred space for you. I take care of all the details, romantic lighting, soft music, silky sheets, sweet treats, exotic smelling incense, fresh towels and high quality warm oils. All you need to do is show up, open up, and relax. I can help guide you in mapping your partner’s pleasure, with a fully body Taoist Erotic Massage. In this massage we do not focus on sexually sensitive areas, rather we integrate them in whole body, nourishing approach.  Honouring your lover with the time and space to relax and receive without needing to be concerned about reciprocating allows a deeper understanding and experience of pleasure. Sharing this practice can be deeply bonding, allowing those with divergent needs to meet in a place of bliss.

Explore new ways of being sexual; power and surrender dynamics, bold sensation, light bondage, role playing.

Feeling curious about your kinky side? I am kink, poly, and LGBTQ friendly. Whatever your fetish is, I can create the safe space for you to talk openly about and potentially explore a new side of yourself. I have a well stocked toy box of the highest quality, immaculately maintained floggers, restraints and sensation toys and I would be happy to offer you a demonstration, a lesson, or give you the chance to experience some new sensations! Again, this means that between consenting adults… anything is possible! I can help you discover choice, and find your voice.

Orgasmic Yoga

I am a certified teacher of Hatha Yoga and working on completing my Yoga Therapist certification by next year. Yoga is defined in the Sutras of Patanjali  as  “Union of body, mind and soul, and with God”.

Within my personal practices,  my interpretation of this is  “Union of breath, movement and intention for self knowing, and for connecting with source”. Together we can explore Embodiment Meditation,  Mindful Masturbation, Yoga For Pleasure, Erotic Trance Dancing and Orgasmic Yoga. If you are curious about knowing yourself in this way, please feel free to ask me for more information.

Please Note:

Rates for these sessions all vary, and can be discussed specifically when we have a better understanding of what our purpose is in working together.

People come to see me for many reasons. You will find many suggestions written on my “For men” and “For Women” pages for specifics that can be explored and addressed during our time together.

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